you are here because you want help

You care about your relationship and want to make things work. A healthy relationship does take work. But, sometimes we find ourselves stuck in a cycle of conflict or disconnection with our spouse that we can’t seem to find a way out of.

We try and try to fix things and yet we keep finding ourselves stuck . . . . . . and this can be so painful and frustrating for us (and our spouse)! It is so hard when we want to be closer to our spouse but none of our efforts seem to work. And it can be even harder when it feels like our spouse has stopped trying to make things better. Sometimes this goes on for so long that we don’t know if our marriage will ever get better, and we may wonder if our marriage is even worth saving. We may start losing hope and becoming discouraged.

As experienced marriage counselors we have worked with hundreds of such well-intentioned couples who simply get stuck and are looking for help. We know what you are going through and we know how to help. Couples counseling is effective for even the most challenging marriages.

If you are like most of the couples we help heal and grow every year, you only have a few requests of your partner:




  • Listens when I need to talk
  • Asks for and values my input
  • Enjoys spending time with me
  • Puts me first
  • Helps me feel loved and important
  • Is honest and open with me
  • Supports me when I struggle or am overwhelmed
  • Apologizes for mistakes
  • Is dedicated to supporting the family through hard work and (sometimes) sacrifice
  • Sees my strengths, not just my weaknesses


  • Is enjoyable to be around
  • Encourages and uplifts me
  • Appreciates my hard work
  • Doesn’t pressure me to talk about things I am not ready to talk about yet
  • Values my input
  • Recognizes my strengths, not just my weaknesses
  • Surprises me once in a while, including sexually
  • Is patient with me
  • Enjoys spending time with me
  • Is willing to forgive me when I make mistakes

find solutions and achieve happiness together

Whatever problems you are facing, whichever areas you want to grow in, couples counseling can help you find solutions and achieve happiness together.

Don’t wait anymore – it’s not too late! We can help you become each other’s dream partner again, just like the many, many newly happy-again couples we help every year.

It is amazing how many couples think their relationship is too lost to be saved, only to discover that after couples therapy they are happier and closer in their marriage than they have ever been before. Marriage counseling really does work!

We’ll Answer Your Questions

Worried your marriage is too stuck to be saved? Don’t think your spouse is willing to give it a try? Afraid you won’t find the right marriage counselor who is expert enough to help? Tried marriage counseling in the past and it wasn’t as helpful as you hoped? Or maybe you have a spouse who is so closed off that you fear couples therapy won’t be helpful?

We get these questions all the time. In fact, these are exactly the kinds of marriages we help save every day. Marriage counseling really is for all kinds of situations – even when a marriage feels hopeless to save. We have seen it all and we know how to help. Whatever you are dealing with today, we can help you work through it. And our incredible success rate attests to that.

Robb and Tonja bring their rich experience as couples therapists to every session. With nearly 40 years of combined experience, Robb and Tonja can help your marriage. Go ahead and text or call us and we’ll answer all your questions in a free and confidential phone consultation. Your marriage and your happiness really are worth it!

Meet Our Marriage Counselors

Dr. Robb Clawson, LMFT


Tonja Kendrick, LMFT


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